Masha Ala Mak Bar Shiokura - Chapter Three

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Morning class, its yet another new Chapter of Masha Ala Mak Bar Shiokura.

Today let’s explore on the needs and wants of a man versus the needs and wants of a woman.

Let’s start today’s class with what does a woman need and what does she wants?

This is a inevitable question that accounts in every relationship. If a man knows exactly what his partner wants and is able to do so, many occasions, a simple relationship will never turn sour. If a man knows exactly what her partner needs, so many things could be sacrificed and re-prioritised to evade a quarrel or a fight from happening.

The deadly question, what does a woman need? Does she needs lots and lots of tender loving care, attention, love and time? Does she need a man to have his shoulder to cry on? Does she need a man to stroke her to sleep every night? Or does she need a man?

So now what does a woman wants? Does a woman wants a man who listens to every single thing he says? Does a woman wants a man to be with her 24 7? Does a woman wants a man?
It bothers me when a friend of mine said that he is not comparable to a dog. I cannot dig that from a friend. If what a woman needs is some guy that wags his tail when she is happy and keeps quiet when she is angry, this does not constitute to a relationship.

If what a woman wants is someone who is always there for her to make her happy and always there for her to lash when she is angry, this does not constitute to a relationship. Why is it always a one directional train that we board? Why can’t this ticket be a two-way ticket?

Relax and take a deep breath. I am sorry. I have side tracked.

What distinguishes between the difference of a man and a woman on their needs and wants?

A woman needs unconditional care, time and concern. Probably a little money along the line would make the relationship happier since we are living in a true world.

A man needs support, respect, trust and freedom.

Yes man tends to be more egocentric in a relationship no doubt and that’s why the word MCP arises. Why didn’t a term WCP sprout up above the rest? I am not saying that we should endure such sexist remarks and equality should never hold among the sexes. I am just asking everyone out there to learn to understand what your other half needs.

We are all matured adults here. To start a relationship is always easy. To maintain one is the difficult part. Why don’t we try to sit down and make sure that the other party understands what you need and you yourself understand what he/she needs?

Sometimes when we focus too much on ourselves, we tend to lose track on how others are feeling. You might not need to bother about how others around you are feeling but at least you still need to bother about how the man sleeping next to you is feeling? Is he troubled? Is he sad? Is he happy? Is he okay?

I am sure you do not want to live a life with your partner doing everything you lay out for him/her. What if one day he asked you "Can I have permission to pee?"

** Disclaimer: None of the above has been certified nor tested by any practitioner. Choose to practice at your own risk.

Stay tune for Chapter Four